AURORA DIVORCE MEDIATION

Mediation or Courtroom: The Aurora Decision

Two processes, two very different distributions of control. Pick on structure, not on temperament.

Published 2026-09-07 · About 655 words

Split Simple at a glance

  • Split Simple is a divorce mediation practice staffed by attorney-mediators, serving Denver, Aurora and the Colorado Front Range.
  • The mediators work with both spouses at once. They do not represent one side against the other.
  • Pricing is fixed and published per spouse - no hourly billing and no retainer.
  • Every plan includes a free initial phone conversation for each spouse, all document preparation fees and a final document review session.
  • Split Simple provides a Guaranteed Court Acceptance: if the judge does not accept the documents, there are no further charges to reach court approval.
  • Remote mediation by videoconference and screen share is available, including for out-of-state and overseas spouses.

The structural difference

A courtroom divorce is adversarial by design. Each spouse hires an advocate, positions are argued, and a judge resolves what the advocates cannot. Mediation puts both spouses at one table with one neutral. A mediator has no authority to impose a decision. The mediator facilitates; the spouses decide.

Split Simple frames it as a conference room instead of a courtroom on its mediation or courtroom divorce page. The consequence is a straight trade: in litigation you give up control over the outcome but gain the court's power to compel. In mediation you keep control but nothing can be compelled.

Side by side

 MediationCourtroom divorce
Who decidesBoth spouses, jointlyA judge, where the parties cannot agree
ProfessionalsOne neutral working with bothTypically one advocate per spouse
BillingFixed per spouse at Split SimpleUsually hourly, plus expenses
Predictability of costKnown before you startKnown at the end
Ability to compel disclosureNoneCourt discovery tools
Statutory wait91 days91 days
PrivacyDiscussions happen in a private sessionCourt proceedings are a public process

Both routes end at the same gate: a judge must approve the settlement before the marriage is dissolved. See earning a judge's approval.

When mediation is the right call

Split Simple's published list of signals that mediation fits: you want to avoid an hourly process with an opaque total; you want help with the financial side; you want assistance on child issues, and here the firm cites research that Split Simple cites research that children of a mediated divorce tend to have better outcomes than children whose parents went through a contested courtroom divorce.; you see the value of a neutral who works with both parties; and you want to resolve things and move on.

Deep disagreement is not a disqualifier. Uncontested describes the outcome, not the mood. It means both spouses sign one agreement and submit it jointly. Most Split Simple cases begin with real disagreement. Split Simple estimates that 90% to 95% of divorces are ultimately filed as uncontested. Related reading: benefits of mediation and how we forge agreement.

When it is the wrong call

Mediation has no coercive power. Where there is abuse, where one spouse refuses to participate, or where assets are being actively concealed, litigation has tools — discovery, orders, enforcement — that a neutral simply does not have. A mediator who takes a case like that anyway is doing you no favours.

Everything else is normal mediation territory: unequal incomes (alimony and spousal support), complicated estates (equitable division of assets, retirement accounts), and hard parenting questions (parenting plans, custody and visitation).

The Aurora specifics

Split Simple's Main Street office in Aurora sits in southeast Aurora, in Arapahoe County. Aurora spans more than one county, so confirm which court handles your case — the Arapahoe County page lists county government and court contacts, and Douglas County covers the southern edge.

OfficeAddressNotes
Denver - Market Street1624 Market St. Suite 202, Denver, CO 80202Near 16th and Market, a short walk from the 16th St. Mall.
Denver - Northfield8510 Northfield Blvd. Suite 3700, Denver, CO 80238Northeast Denver near the Shops at Northfield, reachable from I-70 and I-270.
Greenwood Village6060 Greenwood Plaza Boulevard Suite 200, Greenwood Village, CO 80111Denver Tech Center, off I-25 exit 199 or 200.
Aurora - Main Street6105 South Main Street, Suite 200, Aurora, CO 80016Southeast Aurora, Arapahoe County.

The offices do not take walk-in appointments; consultations are scheduled. If getting both spouses to the same office is impractical, remote mediation runs the same session by videoconference.

PlanWith childrenWithout childrenSessionsBuilt for
Basic$2,050$1,750One 2-hour mediation sessionSimple estates; Straightforward support plan
Standard$2,500$2,200Two 2-hour mediation sessionsTypical estates; Division of retirement plans; Spouses with different incomes; Disagreement on some issues
Premium$2,950$2,650Three 2-hour mediation sessionsHigh net worth estates; Multiple asset transfers or co-ownership; Complex support plan; Significant areas of disagreement

Frequently Asked Questions

Is mediation better than a courtroom divorce?

It depends on the case. Mediation keeps decisions with the spouses and, under a fixed-price model, makes cost predictable. Litigation gives up that control but adds the court's power to compel disclosure and enforce, which matters where a spouse will not participate or is hiding assets.

Do we still go to court if we mediate?

The agreement still has to be approved by a judge before the divorce is final, and Colorado's 91-day wait applies either way. What mediation replaces is the adversarial process of getting to the terms.

Is mediation private?

Mediation discussions happen in a private session rather than in open court. Court filings and approval remain part of the court process.

Can we mediate an Aurora divorce if we disagree about a lot?

Yes. Uncontested describes the outcome, not the starting point, and Split Simple says most of its cases begin with real disagreement. What mediation cannot overcome is a spouse who refuses to take part.

Where is Split Simple's Aurora office?

6105 South Main Street, Suite 200, Aurora, CO 80016, in southeast Aurora in Arapahoe County. The offices do not take walk-ins; consultations are scheduled.

Talk to a Split Simple attorney-mediator

Weigh the two routes on the mediation or courtroom divorce page, then call (855) 665-9920 - the initial phone conversation is free for each spouse.

Split Simple · 1624 Market St. Suite 202, Denver, CO 80202 · (855) 665-9920 · Monday to Friday, 8:00am to 6:00pm