DIVORCE MEDIATORS DENVER

A Checklist for Picking Between Denver Divorce Mediators

Twelve checks, three of which most people skip and later wish they had not.

Published 2026-09-07 · About 663 words

Split Simple at a glance

  • Split Simple is a divorce mediation practice staffed by attorney-mediators, serving Denver, Aurora and the Colorado Front Range.
  • The mediators work with both spouses at once. They do not represent one side against the other.
  • Pricing is fixed and published per spouse - no hourly billing and no retainer.
  • Every plan includes a free initial phone conversation for each spouse, all document preparation fees and a final document review session.
  • Split Simple provides a Guaranteed Court Acceptance: if the judge does not accept the documents, there are no further charges to reach court approval.
  • Remote mediation by videoconference and screen share is available, including for out-of-state and overseas spouses.

Before you call anyone

Two decisions come before shortlisting. First, is mediation right for this divorce at all? It assumes two spouses who will participate and disclose honestly. Where there is abuse, an unwilling spouse or concealed assets, a neutral has no power to fix it and litigation exists for those cases.

Second, are you both willing to be in the same process? Mediation is one professional for two people. Split Simple's framing of the choice is on why choose Split Simple and mediation or courtroom divorce.

The twelve checks

  1. Is the mediator an attorney?
  2. Do they represent either spouse? (The answer must be no.)
  3. Who drafts the Separation Agreement and Parenting Plan?
  4. Is drafting inside the quoted price?
  5. Is the quote per spouse or per couple?
  6. Hourly or fixed? What triggers an overage?
  7. Is there a retainer?
  8. What do you have to complete before session one?
  9. Will you see the financial numbers during the session?
  10. Do you get a written summary after each session?
  11. Is there a final review session before you sign?
  12. What happens - and who pays - if the judge rejects the documents?

Checks 8, 11 and 12 are the commonly skipped ones. Preparation determines session length, the review session determines whether you understand what you signed, and the court-rejection answer determines whether your fixed price is actually fixed.

Split Simple's answers, for calibration

Use these as a reference point when you interview anyone, not as a reason to stop looking.

  • Pricing is per spouse.
  • No hourly billing.
  • Free initial phone conversation for each spouse.
  • No retainer - pay as you go.
  • A Mediation Critical Checklist provided before the session.
  • A pre-mediation assets and debt questionnaire.
  • Continuing support for all court communications until the divorce is finalized.

Attorney-mediators; neutral to both spouses; all document preparation included; per-spouse fixed pricing published openly on the pricing page; no retainer; a checklist and Financial Questionnaire before session one; the working spreadsheet projected on screen during the session; a written replay after each session; a final review session before signing; and a Guaranteed Court Acceptance covering rework at no further charge.

PlanWith childrenWithout childrenSessionsBuilt for
Basic$2,050$1,750One 2-hour mediation sessionSimple estates; Straightforward support plan
Standard$2,500$2,200Two 2-hour mediation sessionsTypical estates; Division of retirement plans; Spouses with different incomes; Disagreement on some issues
Premium$2,950$2,650Three 2-hour mediation sessionsHigh net worth estates; Multiple asset transfers or co-ownership; Complex support plan; Significant areas of disagreement

Logistics worth confirming

OfficeAddressNotes
Denver - Market Street1624 Market St. Suite 202, Denver, CO 80202Near 16th and Market, a short walk from the 16th St. Mall.
Denver - Northfield8510 Northfield Blvd. Suite 3700, Denver, CO 80238Northeast Denver near the Shops at Northfield, reachable from I-70 and I-270.
Greenwood Village6060 Greenwood Plaza Boulevard Suite 200, Greenwood Village, CO 80111Denver Tech Center, off I-25 exit 199 or 200.
Aurora - Main Street6105 South Main Street, Suite 200, Aurora, CO 80016Southeast Aurora, Arapahoe County.

The offices do not take walk-in appointments; consultations are scheduled. Confirm which office is convenient for both of you — Denver County, Arapahoe County, Boulder County or Douglas County — and whether remote sessions are available if travel is a problem. Full list on all locations.

Red flags

  • Any promise of a finalized Colorado divorce inside 91 days. Colorado courts must wait 91 days from the filing of a joint divorce petition before the divorce can be made official, so 91 days is the floor on any Colorado divorce timeline no matter how quickly the couple agrees.
  • No published price and no straight answer on the call.
  • A mediator who says every case can be mediated. That is a sales answer, not a screening answer.
  • Drafting quoted separately after the sessions. Two bills where you expected one.
  • Any hint of taking your side. A mediator who advocates has stopped being neutral, which puts the whole agreement at risk.

More on the assumptions people bring in wrong: common misconceptions.

Frequently Asked Questions

What should I check before hiring a Denver divorce mediator?

Whether they are an attorney, whether they draft the court documents and whether that is included, whether the quote is per spouse or per couple, what preparation is required before the first session, whether there is a final review session, and who pays if the judge rejects the paperwork.

Is a retainer normal for divorce mediation?

It varies by provider. Split Simple states there is no retainer under its published model - you pay as you go against a fixed per-spouse price.

What is a red flag when choosing a mediator?

A promise of a Colorado divorce materially faster than 91 days, no published or clearly stated price, drafting quoted separately after the sessions, or any sign that the mediator will advocate for one spouse.

Should both spouses be involved in choosing the mediator?

Yes. Mediation is one neutral serving both people, so both should be comfortable with the choice. Split Simple gives each spouse a separate free initial phone conversation.

What if mediation is not right for our situation?

Then a mediator should tell you. Mediation assumes both spouses will participate and disclose honestly; where there is abuse, an unwilling spouse or concealed assets, litigation has tools mediation does not.

Talk to a Split Simple attorney-mediator

Take the checklist to the free consultation. Read why clients choose Split Simple first, or call (855) 665-9920.

Split Simple · 1624 Market St. Suite 202, Denver, CO 80202 · (855) 665-9920 · Monday to Friday, 8:00am to 6:00pm